The Bride wanted to have a destination shower. I had never heard of this, but I gather from the trailer of Bridesmaids that it is a thing. Her location of choice was rather pricey being some distance away & in a generally more expensive part of the country. What it wasn't was someplace any rational person would want to go. Her reasons for choosing it had to do with the entertainer who would be there the week-end that had been set aside for the shower. This same entertainer is actually from the state where the wedding was later held, the home state of The Bride, The Maid of Honor & many others of the bridal party. He does shows less than 100 miles from the blessed event frequently, just not on demand.
Ultimately it was a destination (to a different, more convenient, but no less inexplicable locale) shower & it unfortunately coincided with the very day The Maid of Honor lost her job. This was, of course, not The Bride's fault; it wasn't even The Maid of Honor's fault, as her employer had been circling the bowl for a while. The Bride gave The Maid of Honor a stirring & uplifting speech about how she better not be a bummer on this oh-so-important of weekends, second only to the importance of the blessed event itself, just because she didn't have a job. Also, she had better not try to play it cheap.
& finally: at the time of the initial wedding planning The Maid of Honor was dating a guy, lets call him The Snake. Introductions of The Snake to the happy couple were made, as it was expected The Snake would be the The Maid of Honor's date to the wedding. After The Maid of Honor & The Snake broke up & he started openly dating the reason for the break-up, The Bride invited him & his "new" girlfriend to the wedding as guests despite no other previous contact except through The Maid of Honor. Then the Bride began nagging The Maid of Honor to get another date.
Which brings us to today's story. The Maid of Honor had a few drinks at my dining room table & we started brainstorming about who she could bring to this wedding. Previous suggestions included a friend who offered to appear costumed as a butch lesbian, but I knew we could do better. By the end of the evening on the date-table were:
- A stripper...to give the groom a lapdance right after the ceremony. She should also be encouraged to make as much extra cash as possible performing private dances for guests & wedding party alike throughout the reception.
- A drag queen-they are surprisingly pricey
- A mime-they are surprisingly cheap, OKay maybe not "surprisingly" but still a most excellent bargain
- An Elvis impersonator-not as easy to find as you might think, outside of their native Vegas anyhow
- An accordion player-hey, I like accordion music better than the next person. I even still have Gérard Blanchard on vinyl (dude!), but lets face it not everyone wants to hear accordion music with their dried-out chicken entree.
- A clown-which I ended up expanding to include a bride clown & groom clown & their entire wedding party all crammed into a clown car. This made no difference, as the only clowns we could find were strictly of the birthday party/balloon animal variety & if we were going to spend that kind of cash we would definitely go with a stripper.
A few weeks later, it was suggested she order a pizza during the ceremony & ask the delivery guy to stay for the reception. When it was pointed out that the delivery guy probably could not stay, we thought maybe we could get someone to pose as a pizza delivery guy. In the end, there was a kinda-sorta actual offer to pose as a pizza delivery driver but it would have required interstate travel at rather too short notice to board his dog.
The day before the wedding, I texted the suggestion that she dial 911 during the ceremony & ask the firemen to stay. Somehow, I doubt she did.
//nothing to do with this wedding exactly, but I have spent way too much time with brides & I think I might have an idea how bridezillas happen: in order to get a bride to pay exorbitant amounts of money for food she will not eat, a dress she will not wear again, etc. wedding vendors spend a lot of time blowing smoke up the bride's ass. As a general rule, it is never a good idea to take fashion advice from the person who makes a commission off of what you spend on your wardrobe; as a bridal rule it is probably just about as stoopid to take lifestyle advice from people who make money the more extravagant your lifestyle is. I'm just saying.
& about accordion players. I actually briefly dated one in high school, although in those days he was a mere clarinet player. He is a very nice guy & if he lived locally he would absolutely not have attended this wedding with his accordion because he is so nice he would never force accordion music on anyone no matter how egregious their sins. You can see why we didn't last long as a couple.
Lastly, I might be wrong about why The Maid of Honor & The Snake broke up. It is possible this is the reason, it is even possible she told me the reason & this was or was not it & I just don't remember. For the purposes of this blog post, however, The Snake was a semi-discreet man-whore who got caught.